Be your Goofy Self, take plenty of selfies, love you and be 100% you!
Singleness has to be the best season I’ve been in for a while. Nothing to say against any other seasons that I’ve been in they were all great for the most part. I did learn a thing or two. But with this being single season, I’ve grown so much just in a small amount of time. It gives me time to focus on myself. Where I want to be, where I need to, even like my calling, it’s a new found focus to set my eyes upon.
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Everyone’s always so scared of being single. We live in a world that says you need to find a partner but I’m here to say that if you’re not full and whole within yourself and you’re not happy with who you are or where you’re at In life then don’t dare find a partner, because they can’t find that stuff for you. They can’t help you find your own worth or what you need to do or focus on in life, that’s a you thing. They can always tell you happy things, cute or passionate things, they can be very uplifting things and lovely, but this can only get you so far. It can also be draining if you strive to hear this and don’t feel like you receive it enough or whatever. It should be a added bonus and not a must. Or your relationship will be dead as soon as it began, with how overwhelming you make it by just your needs, bc of lack of self worth and love.
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But find your true worth, your true self love, your true calling without any weighing of someone else’s opinions weighing upon your opinions or suggestions or whatever. And this all comes from a season of singleness with you being able to focus on just yourself and your relationship with Christ. So if you’re living in a season of singleness don’t go searching and also don’t be sorry for yourself BE HAPPY, BE PROUD & BE EXCITED this is a life where you get to just focus on you and what you’re supposed to be doing. You’re living a life right now that will help you and jumpstart you to be the best you for when you are in a relationship.
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Because you don’t want to have a toxic relationship, you don’t want a one-sided relationship, or a use/take relationship, no you want a relationship that gives you 100-100 and none of that 50-50. You want a relationship that can thrive because you both are thriving within yourselves. One where you don’t rely on the other to give you your self-worth or self love because you already know that you have it and you know whose its all in as well (Christ).
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And the relationship is focusing more on your love and how wide and how you guys are brought together you guys make each other better and how this is all connected. It’s about both people chasing after God as fast as they can and not looking back! & if the one that you like is falling behind maybe they weren’t the one that you were supposed to be there with you in the first place.
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In this time of singleness I’ve learned a lot and I’m continuing to learn a lot this is only the beginning for me. And I’m excited to see what’s in store. But for whoever is reading this ****I would like to say stay calm and today focus on yourself, love yourself, and don’t look back in that review mirror (or try to live in the past and make it present again) it’s in the past for a reason but look ahead never looking back, keeping those eyes facing forward and that smile on your face with a positive attitude, uplifting and be the change. Be the hope, be the love, be the light and be thankful for your season (I mean you’re in it for a reason!!)
***Don’t go searching, because obviously it got you nowhere. It led you to maybe a few good relationships maybe some were bad as well but they never lasted because you’re single now. Be proud of it and set forth to the journey that lies ahead and always be keeping your focus on the true purpose of life and your journey!:)
This is me! 