“Love is an unconditional thing

You either go all in

Or you don’t

Love can be tricky

But it really shouldn’t be

Love runs deep and wide

It runs so long and high

Our eyes can’t even see

There’s no limit to love

Unless you put reins on it

Because the love we get from above

Is pure love

One that no man can crush or make it look small

So take that kind of love

And show forth to others

Don’t show mankind love

That has limits and falsehood motives

Let’s love one another today

And show everyone, strangers and close loved ones

The real love we have to give

Just kind gestures can have a huge impact

Don’t limit yourself

Shine your light

For all to see

It will truly change a persons day

Let love shine!”

—— Kylie Jo——

#loveunconditionally #loveshine #purelove #lightshine #honoring #joy #peace #love #hope #throughthickandthin #allaboutothers #smiles #chooselove #choosejoy #beintentional #beintentionaleveryday #❤️

I hear a lot about body positivity activist saying they love their body now and there rolls now. That being skinny was bad. But I’m naturally thin and that’s okay too. We all start to throw hate or shame at specific body types because we’re uncomfortable with the uncomfortable and we’re loosing the idea here. It’s not I love my rolls and hate my tiny body. But I hate what made me be in that place to have a body that wasn’t mine. Because I know I’m beautiful inside and out and honestly I love my bones and muscles. I may be on the more petite but still on the tall side but being of a more smaller figure all around is what makes me, me. Girls like me live in a world where bigger is better (breast, butt, curves etc). We feel singled out, not good enough. We get called anorexic or bony, eww that’s gross eat a cheeseburger you’re too tiny and it hurts. Especially when it’s natural and you can’t help it or have a past with ED and people bringing up food like that. Like we’re a bag of bones with no feelings. And all I’m trying to say is, small is beautiful, average is beautiful, large is beautiful, plus is beautiful and petite is beautiful.

LETS STOP THE HATE TALK OF SHAME TO ONE ANOTHER (Directly or Indirectly)! We’re all created beautifully and if we start to throw shame on a body type bc we didn’t like us as that body type or we didn’t like the person we were to be like that. Those who are naturally are on the larger or smaller side are affected and it’s a constant cycle. We as women need to stick together and shine love and not hate to all body types! And all men need to shine acceptance and love ladies for them and not make them feel less for having less or more of something or feel like they need to have surgery or any reasons.

Because; I Kylie Jo LOVES MY BONES, MY MUSCLES, and MY STORY! Whether accepted or not by others. I love going to sleep holding myself and waking up holding my hips (bones) almost cuddling myself. I love appreciating my life no matter where I’m at and loving my body first thing in the morning. Holding on to all parts of my body insecurities and securities all the same and being thankful it’s gotten me to this day and holding on a little tighter, knowing I have a whole new day ahead to appreciate my body. Knowing in the end, I’m my biggest fan and my body rocks! I hug me again with unconditional love and take on my day as best as I can with shining love not hate. That’s the raw me and I’m completely okay and happy with me and I mean all of me; BREAST, BUTT, BODY TYPE, BONES ALL THE SAME! Long journey to get here but I’m thankful and grateful I got to this point and I hope one day if you’re not already women and men alike that you will get here to!!:)

** Thanks for reading if you’ve appreciated my words and gotten to this point of my post. I honor and appreciate you too, bc taking time out of your day to read about me! Lights my world!:) Thank y’all!!;)

🌻Recovery isn’t linear and that’s 100% okay! It’s a fight but a fight well worth taking!!🌻

Funny what time can do for someone!

Healing is a process and I get that! But I’m so happy of this process and journey I’ve partaking on! It’s slowly making me the woman I am today! And leading me to follow my ultimate dreams and I couldn’t be more happy or proud of myself! Recovery from anything isn’t easy, people relapse or have low and high moments but I can honestly say because of some of the people I’ve met this past year and a new found confidence and mindset! Kylie jo is starting to take life by the reins and take captive of each moment and I couldn’t be more proud of myself!

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Now low times for me happen, of course I’m not going to say they don’t. I’m human. But I get through it and come out stronger because I make a choice. A choice to LIFE! Live it courageously and be resilient!In my highs and in my lows, I want to always make sure I’m grounded and let all my friends know how much you’re appreciated and loved!!

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Thank you all whose left an impact on my life in small to big ways this year! Each individual is greatly appreciated and loved and we still have more time to go!!🥰

#orthorexia #anorexia #relapse #musteat #chooselife #healthyeating #therapy #ed #recoveryisntlinear #recovery #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #bethevoice #thinkpositively #onestepatatime #yourestrong #yougotthis #ibelieveinyou #youreamazing #iloveyou #livelifetothefullest #selfcare #selflove

🌻Let me just tell you! This has been no simple journey. It’s been terrifying. And a battle for multiple reasons. From abuse to rape to eating disorders to living in my head bc my body and own skin didn’t feel safe. I don’t know if any of y’all reading this will understand exactly. But it truly has been a scary pass few years and to be able to say this week it’s been a year since I was in that bad toxic relationship with a narcissistic man. Just fills me with joy! My journey to self discovery with who I really am and not what others make me think or tell me or persuade me to be, etc because I am who I am for me and it’s my time for my genuine happiness and my needs and wants and understanding my body and listening to it to be solely unpersuaded or manipulated and justifiably done through me, for me, as it should be. I know I still have a ways to go but I can honestly say to myself I am so proud of where you were to where you are now KY. You’re doing your best, you are trying, you are getting help and have been applying it beautifully! You truly are a rockstar queen and I love you and I’m so thankful for this body for getting me through all of this and keeping me alive and kicking!

Love Kylie Jo!🥰

#feminist #loveyourbody #comfortable #comfortableinmyownskin #recoveryisnotlinear #recoveryisntlinear✨ #recoveryisntlinear #safewithme #igotthis #mystory #myrecovery #myjourney #struggle #battle #courageous #strong #powerfulwomen #resilient #bopo #loved #survivor #narcissisticabusesurvivor #emotionalabuse #sexualabuse #physicalabuse #eatingdisorderrecovery #iamme #neda

I used to be so insecure with my body. I would never tell people the one part I was most vulnerable about. I was way too embarrassed and talking about this insecurity would make it even more of a insecurity. So this has been my own battle for most of my life. Looking and searching for acceptance from others to appreciate my body (even in my guarded clothing). I wore guarded clothing because I didn’t feel pretty enough to wear the in clothes and low cut tops, because what did I have to show. I also wanted others to appreciate a body that I didn’t appreciate.

*Until recently!*

I am proud to say I now accept my body! It’s been a long time coming. I’ve always been a slimmer women and us petite ladies live in a world where you must be curvy to be beautiful or busty. Leaving our insecurities deep with out place to run. SO MY INSECURITY WAS MY BREAST. I was one who searched for the acceptance of others and wanted others to say they were beautiful, thinking that I’d finally think they’re beautiful as well If others did. But that’s not the case. It took me a long journey to get to this point of accepting me, ALL OF ME! Without needing a man or anyone else to tell me or inform me. And trust me, it took me being out of a relationship to figure this out ladies, just saying! I used to dream of having bigger breast but don’t want a foreign object in there to make them larger, and I don’t believe in surgery but still battled on doing so. I also wore padded bras and longed to wear tops braless but was WAYYYYY TO INSECURE (my nipples will pop out or people will see I’m tiny all around, etc) But I KNOW I am beautiful! I have battled with so much in my life, many things that people may know and many things others don’t. I’m a pretty private person. But when you have a self acceptance like “the transformation mindset” I like to call it that I’ve had. You can’t but help and tell everyone (I mean if it’s not weird).

Because I’ve been fed for way to long that a significant other would only love you if you have (big boobs, big butt, curves, muscles, whatever it may be). I SAY NO! The right man, will love me for me! My gorgeous lovely self INSIDE AND OUT! My body is a temple! A piece of art! And I hate to say it’s taken me this long to figure this out! But I’m 23 years old and I am more than ready to walk with confidence now, show off my body, and love me for me! To finally be able to wear tops I try to say I dislike, so I don’t buy them or friends don’t encourage me too, because of insecurities. Or to finally feel more free and just do me and wear what’s me, regardless of this “curvy is beautiful, being thin is anorexic” world we live in. Which is beyond frustrating, just saying!! I may not have these big boobs to show off in low cut tops, but that don’t mean they’re not beautiful and I can and I will still wear those tops! Because regardless of what others think or say! I am beautiful! I am me! And I was created this way without flaw! Who am I to allow others comments or judgements to stick to me like a leech or my own! They didn’t earn a place in my life, nor do I want them there, so why did I for so long allow them to be there. Right?! Well that ends today!! When I was created by the one and only creator, my body was uniquely and beautifully designed for a purpose! Hand picked! And beyond everything, I am thankful, grateful and blessed to be in this body of mine! And ready to take this world on, NOW IN CONFIDENCE!