You don’t know how it feels, till it happens to you..

This couldn’t be more true

Everyone tries to understand you

Like it’s a easy thing to do

No matter what it is

ED

sexual assault

Emotional

Sexual

and physical abuse

That’s just my story

But yours could be similar too

It’s not just one thing or the other

This video may be revolving around just one

But the lyrics go so much deeper than that

And people around you

Always want to help

But usually always

With bandaid words

Or things like

“Pick your head up, your fine”

“you need to eat more”

“you’re not treating your body with respect” “you need to take care of yourself better”

“That is in the past, time to move on”

“Are you not giving it to God”

“Are you sure that’s what happened”

“Build a bridge and get over it”

Or they try to twist your words to make it seem better or okay

I say no

It’s time to take a stand

And speak up

We are women

We are proud of it

Our journey

Our story

May be different

And hard and heavy

But it’s the story and journey

That made me and you the way we are

So let’s stand against those critics

And commenters

We are strong

We are beautiful

And we will stand as a unit with our fellow ladies

To console

And be there for one another

Because I don’t care

If it’s been 20 years since it happened

Or

20 weeks or 20 days

There are triggers

There are moments

And there are memories

That can come back up

Even when we fought the battle

and Concurred it

So always remember

Weather you know the full story

or think you do

It can always be deeper than that

And you don’t understand what it’s like

TRUTHFULLY

Unless you went through it exactly like me

Plus even if you did, this doesn’t mean it’s the same

So choose love

Honesty

And care

Because this journey for the recoverer

Is filled with hills and valleys

Some hidden and some shown

But always for the one recovering

Unpredictable and unaware

We thank you in advance for trying to help

It’s just not always

Fine and dandy

Or easy in fact

To truly cheer up after any kind of pep talk

With the memory videos flooding back

in our minds on constant replay

We’re trying our best to just remain focus on the talk

And to show love

*So please remember this, if you love someone or know of someone who has some kind of battle they face and take no hard feelings to it either, we mean no harm.

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